How do you respond to life’s difficulties?

Have you ever noticed how people respond differently to the same situations? Some respond with self-control, love, and wisdom while others respond with unstable emotions, hate, and foolishness.

So, how can you make sure that you respond the right way? To answer that question, let me share with you a quote. It goes like this:

“The same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg. It’s what you’re made of. Not the circumstances.” 

From a Christian perspective underscores the importance of the inner qualities of a person, rather than external circumstances, in shaping their response to life’s challenges.

As followers of Christ, we are called to cultivate godly character traits such as love, patience, kindness, and faithfulness. These qualities are not developed overnight but are nurtured through a lifelong journey of spiritual growth and transformation. Just as the potato and the egg are transformed by the boiling water, so too are we transformed by the trials and tribulations we face.

External circumstances are often beyond our control. We cannot prevent hardships, trials, or adversity from coming our way. However, what we can control is our response to these circumstances. This is where the importance of godly character becomes evident. When we have cultivated a heart that is aligned with God’s will, our responses will reflect His love, grace, and wisdom.

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Jesus (Yahshua) emphasized the significance of the heart in shaping our actions and attitudes. In Matthew 15:18-19, He said:

“But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them. For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.”

Therefore, as believers, we must continually strive to guard our hearts and cultivate godly character. Through prayer, studying God’s Word, fellowship with other believers, and reliance on the Holy Spirit, we can develop a heart that is steadfast and rooted in Christ.

In doing so, we can navigate life’s challenges with grace, resilience, and unwavering faith, knowing that our response is ultimately a reflection of the character of Christ within us.


(🚨 P.S. Developing the Fruit of the Holy Spirit allows us to reflect God’s character in every interaction that we have with people. Now, here’s what’s amazing, developing the fruit of the Holy Spirit is one of the most important habits of a Christian. I have discussed this further in one of our best courses, “7 Powerful Habits of Highly Effective Christians.” Check it out today and see how you can transform from an ordinary person to an extraordinary child of God!)

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